Remembering the Dead
All Souls Day is a very special day dedicated to our loved ones who passed away. We come back to our hometown to pay respect to our dead loved-ones. This is our chance to visit their graves and show our love by offering flowers, candle, food, and the most important, prayers. All Souls Day is also a reunion among both the living and the dead. Most families keep a vigil in cemeteries and/or memorial parks. They play card games, board games, name games, sungka and other games they could think of. Some would even sing in karaokes and videokes. Why do we put candles on their graves when there are already lamps? I believe that the lights from the lamps guide the ways of the living while the lights from the candles guide the ways of the souls of our dead loved-ones to heaven. Why do we offer food when the dead could not eat anymore? This is a pagan belief that the souls of the dead would return for a meal with the family. Obviously, the dead could not take food anymore - a...